WHAT YOU CAN DO:

  1. Observe the situation carefully, try to pay attention to every detail and ask your child only general questions
  2.  Contact a sector expert who will advise you on the best solution for handling this delicate case.

WHAT YOU SHOULD AVOID

  1. Avoid involving your child by recounting doubts about the other parent.
  2. Try not to make your partner suspicious: avoid asking insistent questions. This behaviour could make him or her suspicious or compromise future investigations.

 

ALWAYS BEAR IN MIND THAT

  • It is not possible to request telephone records; know the content of text messages sent or received by third parties; intercept telephone calls or to carry out earsdropping activities in private places.
  • It is illegal to spy on the Facebook profile, WhatsApp or emails of one’s partner.
  • Anyone committing one of these offences could risk imprisonment from 6 months to 4 years.
  • Anything collected via activities such as these cannot be used as evidence in court for a possible ruling on separation and/or for requesting apportionment of blame.
  • Always contact sector professionals who will help you find evidence that is reliable and valid in court, in full compliance with the law.